goddamnitjustletmepickausernamee:

leonisdraw:

queerenbian:

goddamnitjustletmepickausernamee:

queerenbian:

goddamnitjustletmepickausernamee:

queerenbian:

goddamnitjustletmepickausernamee:

queerenbian:

goddamnitjustletmepickausernamee:

queerenbian:

goddamnitjustletmepickausernamee:

queerenbian:

goddamnitjustletmepickausernamee:

just-grasping-at-straws:

love-as-thou-wilt:

outrageauxbonnesmoeurs:

Vintage women being badass. You’re welcome.

Don’t fool yourself into thinking ladies were demure and silent in the past. 

I would like more female characters being this open

It’s awesome but some of them are plain rude

gee, I can’t possibly imagine why they’d be rude! yes I can it’s because men think women are their goddamn property!

@queerenbian Not everyone thought of them like that, and you don’t need to be sarcastic

1. you’re missing the point.

2. I’ll be sarcastic if I damn well wanna be.

1. I am very well aware of “the point”

2. I never said you couldn’t, just said there wasn’t a need

3. All I was trying to say is I agree with the women above. I just think people need to have more respect for each other and stop being rude

1. Are you sure? like are you really sure?

2. lmao ok then

3. …. Like I said. “People” (read: women) will be more respectful to other people (read: men) when they stop acting like people are possessions

1. I am sure I am aware of the point.

2. Are you sure you aren’t being naive?

3. Both genders are perfect. We all had/have flaws

2. …. what?

3. There are more than two genders.

1. I’m sorry, I meant both genders aren’t perfect. Not “are”

2. You seem to be wholly one sided and unable to concede the fact that it wasn’t all men’s fault. I’ll give that , yes, it was a portion, possibly a big one.

3. I apologise if it offends you but I believe there is only two genders. Call me old fashioned but I have yet to encounter genitalia, on a human, that is neither a penis or a vagina. Until the point of naturally occurring genitalia, that isn’t a penis or vagina I will firmly believe there is only two genders.

2. Stop putting words into my mouth.

3. Go to fucking hell. Get away from me. I don’t want anything to do with you. There are more than two fucking genders. Genitalia =/= gender.

Okay I apologise, I meant to make an observation. I am sorry. I didn’t have any malicious intent. I was wrong.

There’s no need to get angry, I merely shared my opinion, I don’t expect every to agree. I’m not angered by your opinion that there is more than two genders.

I’m glad you’re not angry.

I’m still fucking angry.

Anyone wanna deal with this tonight? I’m going to bed.

I’ll take the relay @goddammitjustletmepickausernamee

(can’t tag, if someone can, that’d be amazing)

AN OPINION IS: “hey I think this cake doesn’t look good.”

An opinion isn’t “hey I think all your identity is fake, and invalidating you is my way of life.”

An opinion isn’t Passive-agressive bullshit.

an opinion isn’t going on people posts, and goading them into that kind of bullshit argument, esp people who can, and are vulnerable (and u knew perf well what u were doing when you started to attack a user named “queer”, don’t you fucking dare lie to me.)

and finally: make your own post. If you wanna actually discuss this

Also don’t accuse women who are from a time you probably *don’t even fucking remember*, never mind actually understand.
These women didn’t have the opportunity to work without their husband having a say, or their father. They didn’t have a bank account that wasn’t controlled by them. And then, they have the right to all of this, voting, and be free BUT men still act as if they own them.
They were angry, and they were fucking damn right.

So, mind telling me again how they are rude?

Mind telling how them telling men to mind their manners and to stop acting as if they should follow men’s words as law and god’s word, is rude??

And finally: please go fuck yourself.

Or attack yourself to someone your own size, bully.

@leoisdraw

Okay, I gave my opinion at the very beginning. It was about being rude. Right? I didn’t ask for others to respond with passive aggressive sarcasm. It wasn’t a one sided thing. They goaded me as much as I goaded them. It’s not my fault people are quick to anger. And yes the user name starts with “queer” that doesn’t entail the all the person’s views. “Queer” entails that someone is just not considered normal by social standards. And I honestly applaud you if you are weird, or odd, or a queer.

(p.s. idk how to make a blog, I haven’t been on here alot ,so I’m sorry about that..)

I didn’t attack anyone, if I did it would’ve been filled with a lot more cuss words. To be fair , I didn’t need to comment on this post originally but also to be fair Queerenbian didn’t need to respond to me so we are both equally in the wrong. If you really want to split hairs Queerenbian responded to me I didn’t ask for that.

Also was trying to be nice and then I gets worn out so why should I have to be nice?? I could have insulted or slandered or yelled and screamed but I didn’t I tried to remain as respectful as possible whereas I received no such treatment.

Society is more complex than just men being bad and women being oppressed there’s many factors to it and what you have stated so far seems very much like you haven’t considered those factors.

So since you were very rude it is my turn I am sorry you are both whiny little brats who can’t use more than two brain cells to figure out that I was trying to be polite and my patience isn’t everlasting.

Answer time! Big wall of text, I hope u like reading.


You didn’t say “hey I’m going to be rude” you said: “I’m judging these women, and they are rude.”

You didn’t say “this may sounds inconsiderate, but I feel like they’re being rude”
See? Not the same.
Not the same as “It’s awesome but some of them are plain rude”.

It fails to take into the social context of the time. And yes, it is more complex than that, but that wasn’t what I said.
I said in this: Men are acting as if they own those women. And they react, justifiably so.
But also take into account that this is a trend of society. Don’t “Not all men” me, I’m well aware of that but also you need to acknowledge this is a thing that existed in every strate, function of our society and still exist to this day.

Idk if english is your first language (it’s not mine, so I’m not supposing anything), but queer has other connotations than just “weird” as you said.
(plz check Queer culture, and the fight of LGBT+ rights and the queer community if you’re not yet aware).

Also, to make a new post is simply going on top of ur dashboard and clicking “text” button and there u go! u can write text! and talk about it!

You didn’t ask to get aggressed, and maybe they could have reacted better but also? You were being an asshole. Bc you were being inconsiderate to people who lived those kind of situation and wished that someone told them it was okay to react like that.
Bc you’re saying “you have no right to be angry”, and it’s quite frankly a gaslight tactic.
Maybe you’re not aware, and I’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt, but also, I am not standing and letting you bully people bc you believe your opinion is right and just.

So yeah. 

#NotAllMen you say, and I’ll tell you #YesAllWomen.


(also before you get a go at me, I’m a transman, and I’m perf aware how much advantage I gain online by being a man openly. And when I pass as male IRL, I gain a lot of privileges, and I was also assaulted by men when I was passing woman. So yeah, I’m aware that it’s more complicated, but that it’s also irrelevant in that specific point)

(also as an aside it’s really too bad this gifset doesn’t have awesome badass black women or asian women on it, and it needs to be rectified soon)

(look up sexual revolution, and the change women’s rights brought into society btw, it may clear up a few things if you don’t understand the political context of this post)

(and I may come off as abrasive, but I don’t mind if you want to hmu in private to clear the air)

(also saying “sorry” wouldn’t be out of hand either)

(you know, just in case you wanted to be a human being and acknowledge other people have feelings and that you’ve been trampling on them)

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